I have a gut feeling to
talk to my brothers and sisters out there, as observed the art of seduction was
once biased towards the male sex. In the 21st century there has been a paradigm
shift on the way this game is played. To be a good player of course there is a
basic checklist to be followed, a plan from inception, execution and of course
review and monitoring to find out if actually the objectives were met. I don't
want to sound boring or rather academic, to get her or him at least you should
try this.
Plan
It doesn't cost a thing
for you to visit hangout joints, clubs, churches, community hubs, and events in
town. Have an objective is he a "chips funga" "Mr. right"
"Just a friend " or "a friend with benefits", with an
elaborate plan you can strategize on how to be there and how to carry
yourself with your goal in mind .
You goal will determine
your moves will help you decide.
Analysis
It depends with your
preferences what do u look for in a woman or man, is it age ,complexion, the alpha
type or that who can make you laugh all heartedly even if there is nothing
he/she said funny. That is life and I will let you decide, play your cards well
be yourself and sincere to yourself. Don’t settle for too low or much higher
that what you can chew, know your boundaries and limit. Find out about him or
her, what she likes, who she hangs out with. Do your homework well so that when
later you will be conversing with her you already know much about her or him,
being one step or two steps ahead makes you appear intelligent and when talking
about a fact, trust me she will be swept away.
Rehearse
Let’s not lie
because" practice makes perfect". Pull it on friends I mean
your tactic of seduction, let them analyze it and monitor your performance,
because that is when you will get their opinions. It might not be as you expect
but you will at least learn the next step, you need to get that which is the
most important ingredient, Confidence. It takes years to develop or even a
lifetime but it is the most essential in this art. the way i developed mine was
through attending events, carrying up my hand in classes and meetings ,asking
questions sometimes even rhetoric ones, the irrelevant ones became
icebreakers at least people laughed, I took it upon myself to hug people
more so those that looked familiar. Those are my tactics maybe you can be more
creative and you might be surprised of the outcome.
Implementation
This is it the actual
seduction practice. If you are with your boys or girls excuse yourself , say hi
to them , of course be stylish and at the same time be yourself, don't over
dress remember simplicity looks professional, first impressions count and is
the determinant of your success or failure. Am tempted to give an example:
“Boy: Hallo
Girl: Hi
(of course don't expect much dude she doesn't know you).
Girl: Hallo
(you should start smiling coz she's been watching you).
Boy :( smiling)
(look her straight in the eye, It make you appear bold and straightforward)
Boy :( I am
X) (be sincere with your name don't lie or give an out nick Name. be bold and
sincere because ladies
or even men find it funny)
Girl: So how may
i help you? (Now such an answer might discourage you, but no twist it to your
advantage)
Boy: yes of
course how about hugging a stranger? Who happens to like you (Dude think of
yours that is my vibe halloo)."
Hey I don't have to tell you everything, think it through from
there you have created a rapport which is the most important ingredient.
Monitoring
After all the above please you did it, it doesn't matter if she or
he ignored you but she knows you are watching her, you like her/him and she/he
has some homework to do, think about you, maybe you got the contact from the
conversation. Please ask if she/he arrived home safe, appear caring, and then
let WhatsApp, Facebook, text messages do the rest because you will be bolder
when not with him or her.
These has always worked for me what do you think? Or you have a
better approach thanks, anyway for reading and am looking forward to hearing
from you
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